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Reader, it's been a while since we last touched base. What's good with you, fam?!
Happy Autumn Equinox to you! If you're on the East Coast right now, rain and wind are ruling the roost! I'm currently in the NorthEast neck of the woods and we are having a very rainy equinox thanks to Ophelia. I pray you and your family are safe during hurricane season.
I was planning to send you a video update today, but your doctor is not feeling it right now. So words will have to do for today.
This past week has been exhausting and the rain storm right now makes me want to sleep all day (NO CAP)! In fact, I slept until noon today, which NEVER happens! If that is not a sign of how your body will shut you down to rest, then I don't know what else is. (haha!). And sometimes, instead of fighting against yourself, you just have to go with it.
Can you relate, Reader?
If so, feel free to share with me a time you made yourself do something that went against how you really felt. What was the outcome? Did you do it for someone else's sake and not your own? Or, did pushing yourself actually help and make a positive difference? Personally, I usually don't receive the best outcomes when I go against my own self-preservation, lol. But, I'm curious if that's true for others as well.
Also, Reader, have you ever noticed how life tends to occur in cycles and repeated phases?
For example, every 100 - 120 days a red blood cell dies and a new one begins. Every month, there is a full and new moon. Every 3 months, our seasons change. Every 7 - 12 years, we all go through major shifts and changes, which can be very challenging and/or life-changing.
Here's the deal on my end...
The last three months have been a complete upheaval! I've been missing in action on socials and newsletters because my world was and currently is being rocked by many changes. I know some folks keep pushing on and sharing their entire process with the world, but that's just not how I operate. I am a private introverted person (despite being quite outgoing), and I rather get through my challenges by going inward and staying present. That said, please trust that I have an incredible support system I openly share with to help me process and grow. I firmly believe that we all need people most when we are going through tough times and it is not a time to self-isolate or shut down.
So far this year, we've had three devastating deaths in my family, and lots of other changes in between.
The cycles of life and death are inevitably experienced by everyone in this world. You can't outrun it or deny it. And experiencing death so close and personal in my circle has been a bitch slap to the face. I've been humbly reminded how fragile life can be and not to take time and people for granted. Not only that, family is such a special village that we should pour regular effort into nurturing those relationships. Then, there is also the reality of what it means to live healthily and foster a life of longevity, which varies for us all.
I'll spare you details of all my shadow work and grief process, but just know, that these events have helped to reawaken how I view health and family. I'm clearer than ever that...
Being the staunch realist that I am, I've also realized the importance of having your documents together when it comes to life insurance, living wills, and being clear about who will take care of you or have your back when illness hits. This is especially important when you enter your 30s and beyond, so follow this link to get your affairs in order so it doesn't cause more grief and difficulty for you or your family in the event of sudden illness or demise.
Final note...
The Autumn Equinox is an excellent time for reflection. On a day where the hours of day and night are equal, and days will soon become shorter, the theme of BALANCE is a major energy you may feel right now. Take this opportunity to explore and understand what are your innermost desires:
I've been doing this work lately, amidst all the shifts and changes, and I'm getting clear on what I want the next phase of my life to reflect so that I continue to align with a balanced existence. It's been highly revealing and I'm amazed that the beliefs and goals I had even a few years ago are no longer what I want or believe now.
So, that's where I am at, and I will be sharing more with you very soon on some of the new developments birthed from this process. The biggest of which includes, making more space and time to take care of my health and family. By keeping health and family as my focus right now, I'm feeling hella hopeful. :-)
Thanks for reading Reader and I encourage you to share with me too. Remember, this newsletter is not just for informational purposes. It's a community we're building together.
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Greetings! My name is Dr. Ray, ND MS and I specialize in helping busy individuals overcome chronic illness, reverse burnout, and restore vitality using natural and indigenous medicine designed for modern living. With almost a decade of experience as a primary care doctor and over 2,000 patients served, I am proud to have been featured in respected publications such as Forbes Health, MindBodyGreen, US News & World Report, and EatThisNotThat! Each month, I send out a free "A Dose of Vitamin Ray" e-newsletter to offer expert information on using naturopathic medicine, indigenous healing practices, nutrition, lifestyle, and other wellness resources to support your daily well-being. Subscribers gain access to valuable tips, health research, herbal remedies, healthy recipes, and more. Join my healthy community by subscribing today!
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